Board Thread:Wiki Events/@comment-4952704-20151123024013

I really don't thin the title will be fitting by the end, but you know what, i don't care.

The events today have really brought me down, because other people are down. "Whoa, you're not cold hearted! You have feelings?", yes sir, i do. I'm not sure if something is wrong with me, but i'm not much of a downer. I'm probably the most hopeful person you'll meet. Now there's a difference, nice and hopeful.

I don't know what it is exactly, but people feel out of place here. A lot of my friends i'm seeing want to speak their mind, and they mask their emotions. Which is fine, no need to cause drama, but it's really bringing me down seeing them upset. Or seeing other, newer admins upset. I know there are bad days, and this might not be a good day, but you shouldn't give up.

I know how hard things can get. Some of you have schedules for a series, some of you just want to fit in. I know some of you just want to do everything according to plan. But i can't stand seeing some of you down. Some of you wanna speak up, but you don't wanna cause drama or you just wanna wait.

There is a word for everything you guys are feeling, whether underrated, not appreciated, stressed, or unneeded: It's okay. It's okay to feel this way. But don't give up because of a few bad days. Not everyday will be a good day, and even for some of you newly promoted, don't give up trying. Whatever it is you wanna do, just do it.

Everything will be okay is my point. If something didn't go according to schedule, then it's okay. You didn't fail. The world isn't ending tomorrow, you're okay. You finish when you finish, just don't let your IRL bring you down. Don't let it make you lose hope for BTFF or a show, you do have a place and a time.

You have all the time in the world to do what you want. You'll miss deadline, you will have days where you feel useless, but there's a balance. When you take time to work on your show, even if you miss deadline, you produce something with more effort and thought into it.

When you feel useless, there will come a day when someone will need you. Someone to bring you back up again. When you feel underrated, then speak up. You're not begging for attention, you're just being honest. That's how i'll view it, and i'm willing to bet i'm not alone.

This can't be a functional community, much less family, if we don't work together and speak up. Speak your mind, here and now. Whether it's uselessness, irrelevance, or anything else, speak up. If we're a truly good community and family, then we'd be here for each other.

If you're feeling down, it's okay. Say the two words to yourself, it's not the end of the world. It's just a bad day. People here say they're waiting for support groups, but that's only a thing. You're not limited to support groups. I've spoken my mind, maybe you should too and not make me look like a complete idiot.

Keep it civil, keep it honest, and help make this a great community by being honest above all else. I just couldn't bare the thought of a lot of people feeling down today, not to name any names. It was making me feel terrible.

Go on, speak your mind. 