Thread:Migster7/@comment-4050367-20160131143820

To see my entire message to you, edit this thread and go to source mode.

I didn't think the entire wiki needed to see this, because it's just addressed to you, in case you're wondering about why it's hidden.

Look, I get it if you find Sixef annoying. That's how you feel, that's your opinion and you're free to have that opinion. Also, you've just become admin so I'm not going to go as hard on you as I was on Yopo, and you didn't say as much as Yopo.

I don't know if you know this, but Sixef has autism, okay? Now, as a person who is on the autistic spectrum myself (I have Aspergers), I can sympathize with that. I know you might think "Well you don't act like Sixef". True, but I'm one of the luckier ones to be honest. There's various levels of Autism and autistic spectrum disorders. Sometimes, with people on the autistic spectrum, they have restricted and repetitive interests and behaviors. You might think that Sixef is obsessed with Br, but in reality he may not be fully able to control that.

Now, that doesn't mean you can't say anything. Instead of saying "'Every single time you're on you ask where Bry is or you obsess over him like JESUS"; say "Sixef, we don't know where Bry is, can you please stop asking?". It's all about how you word it. You have to watch what you say and how you say it. You might be annoyed, but you have to try and not let that show. You have to be a role model for the wiki.

Now listen, I hope you take this not as me guilt tripping you or anything, because I'm not trying to Mig. I get that you're new and sometimes even I say things that I know I shouldn't. I'm just trying to help you understand my point of view, so that you can take this opportunity to become a better admin. Mig, I really hope you don't take this the wrong way and think badly of yourself, because in the grand scheme of things this isn't a big issue. I just want you to go "Okay thanks for the input, I'll remember that next time".

In my time on here, I've really tried to stress communication and friendliness with the community. Every now and then, a good cop/bad cop routine might be needed, but 90% of the time, we should all be good cops. We should assume positive intent. I don't think Sixef was intentionally trying to make anyone mad, but I get how you might be annoyed. I've gotten annoyed before, but you have to move past that and act for the greater good. And listen, if we're ever on chat, and you want my opinion on something or an answer to a question you have so you can be a better admin, just ask. I want to help you Mig to be a great admin for this wiki. --> I'm sure you don't want me talking about this anymore, so I won't. I'll just end this thread by saying that I learned that I'm going to be unavailable in the later-part of the day, and thus I'm not going to be able to be on today if you have any questions or anything else you want to tell me. I apologize for that. I hope your weekend is going well, and I hope you're okay dude. Also, if you see that I have a new avi, you can start speculating lol. 